Is the definition of insanity doing the same thing and hoping for a different result? But why not torture myself again...

A hopeless romantic, I am thoughtful, passionate and a good conversationalist. Why am I here? I am unfulfilled in my marriage and come here hoping to find a lover and a friend. The one who will come to me as if in my dreams, assuaging my hunger and longing. The one I can be a confidant and friend to as well, giving them the attention they deserve.

Lets be each others light through the crack in the window, the storm of passion brewing alongside, your hand to hold, the eye to look and find beauty. Let’s seek the beauty and wonder that lies in every corner, every adventure in life.

I want to meet a woman who is wonderful as well as beautiful, for a lasting and fulfilling “relationship.” I know what that feels like. I had that in the past. Maybe it was one in a million. I’m hoping it is possible again. I'm 6’2” tall, told I am handsome emotionally and physically. Grayish hair, dark eyes. Married-grown kids- not interested in changing yours or my own situation. Not here to find fault or to throw stones at. Life is complicated enough as is. This is to make it better.

I am endlessly curious, adventurous, amd thoughtful. I want to meet the Ying to my Yang… the person that makes me smile every-time I see a secret note from them…

Quoting from another great affair "I'm worried that you are lonely, sometimes I stop and feel wanting for things I haven't given you.. feeling good tonight as I write to my perfect friend"

Will you join me? Note #1 please put in more effort than “hello “ on a reply - I realize male to female ratio here is likely 100-1 but if you were posting, you would want someone who puts an effort into their conversation. I am looking for the same. Note #2 please be older than 30 and married in a monogamous relationship. I don’t think an open relationship works well as an AP for me, for multiple reasons. I am very comfortable in my own skin and not here for a sugar relationship. No judgment. Note#3 I am not opposed to in person after there is trust. Thank you.