I'm looking for someone to chat with that isn't in a hurry for any particular goal and instead is open to getting to know each other when time permits. I'm a very busy person and being in touch usually can only happen about twice a day. I'm sorry if that's not for you. I get it!

About me... Educated, funny (well, if you have a dry sense of humor), sensitive, open-minded, interested in continuing to learn more about the world, interested in continually growing as a person, married and not at all looking to change that. I'm also very sexual and am interested in finding a connection that includes that, but in no rush to create it.

I think that many of us here are really just catfishing ourselves. We're looking to indulge in a fantasy that can brighten our day and provide something that we might be missing in our real lives. But, I think it is also possible that two people could take the time to get to know each other and create a bond. To be honest though, I think those same two people, if they spent tons of time together (as we do with our significant others) would end up in the same situation. The excitement would wear off. We'd still feel the love for the other person, but the fantasy would disappear. Perhaps by not being able to have full access to each other, the excitement lasts...

If any of this resonates with you, why not send me a chat? I think it helps to have something to talk about, so why don't you tell me the thing you're most looking forward to doing in the near future or what you did this weekend. Or... what are your top three hobbies/activities? I'm open to suggestions and topics. I look forward to hearing from you.