Hi there my name is Jay, I'm a 38 year old man, white, strong build, tall and a little bald but I keep it shaved and wear it well. I'm looking for a long term online friendship and affair with the right woman. I am Canadian (EST), a professional Draftsman who mostly works from home these days. I have a lot of availability during the days and in the evenings. I am married and do not have a dead bedroom but I have a need for a lot more excitement in my life and to be perfectly honest with you this sneaky stuff is exciting to me and I am looking for a woman who is on this same wavelength. I'm not looking to change out situations. I do not have kids but I'm patient if you do, I get it.

If you are someone who is just kind of lurking here who perhaps also feels like she is leading a second secret internet night life the maybe we should chat a bit. I am looking for a long term thing with a like-mind who just needs to be open and honest with someone about her needs, desires, frustrations and all the things running through her head keeping her awake at night.

I am not interested in alcoholics. 420 is fine with me in fact I've always been very attracted to alt and hippy styled women. I like bigger and smaller women, tattoos are great, being a bit a nerd is a huge plus. I like to do a bit of gaming, I read science books which I totally understand 33% of the time and I've even dabbled in streaming some retro gaming here and there. Sex and fantasy are important to me, if you are not sex and porn positive then I'm probably not the guy for you, just being real and upfront here. If we click I would want to move to discord in the long run as I keep my cellphone clean and use my home office computer for the secret internet life stuff.

This was a lot harder to write than I thought it would be, I may have to refine it but if you feel like you and I might be living the same lonely but not lonely life send a chat sometime and lets see if we vibe. I hope to hear from you.

Jay