Okay, first of all... There seems to been a lot of scammers here lately. I can see it from a mile away. So yeah... I'm not an easy mark so you'd be better off trying one of these other guys who's more desperate and less street smart. That said... To all the actual real legitimate women on here who aren't going to send me a suspicious link, request money to "prove I'm serious" or request I send nudes after three messages shared and zero effort to get to know me ... Hi!

I'm a 42m, married with one kid. I'm in a completely emotionless dead marriage... Roommates situation at this point. I am looking for someone in a similar situation ... Cake eaters need not apply.

I'm a huge romantic looking to bring that excitement an adventure back into my life. Somehow a ridiculously affectionate romantic guy such as myself ended up in a marriage with none of that. I'm looking for the butterflies, late night conversations about anything, good mornings and goodnights, sharing stupid silly stuff with each other that we see throughout our days... And eventual meetups.. I'm here for all of that!

I live on the Ohio and Pennsylvania border about an hour from Pittsburgh, an hour from Cleveland, and an hour from Erie, PA. I've tried the ultra long distance thing before and it doesn't really work for what I'm looking for... So I'm hoping to find somebody within a 4-Hour radius of either of those cities. I just listed. I have no problem driving and I travel for work. I've been extremely flexible work schedule that does involve travel so it's no problem for me to get away for a night or two now and then.

I love the outdoors, national parks, mountain airbnbs, trips to the beach, and cruises (might be a little hard for us to explain away the four night cruise though 😂). I do work out and take care of myself. However, I'm not perfect and I'm not expecting perfection. I do expect somebody who can keep up with me on hikes and who also tries to take care of herself. I'm 5'10" with blonde hair that's turning gray and green eyes. I have that type of body where you can tell I work out and lift weights. However, I also enjoy delicious food now and then so there's that. (Amazing cook by the way 😉). Yes, I am only slightly above average height, no I do not have a beard or tattoos... Sorry! (I have a zero problem with tattoos ... It might be a stretch for me to be okay with you having a beard though ... I mean if you're super nice to me maybe I can look past it 🤣)

I tried this before a couple of years ago, and am giving it another chance (well another another chance as I just got metaphorically punched in the face by someone). While my prior experience didn't work out in the long run, I know what I'm looking for is possible and I'm willing to be patient to find it. I've also learned that it is important to have defined expectations and standards. I'm not looking for somebody who is low effort... I have a lot of time and energy to put into something like this. We all are busy with work and kids... But you can't get to know somebody if you don't try. I am looking for something exclusive and long-term. I'm not into polyamory, and this is an affairs group not an open marriage group. I have no plans to end my marriage anytime soon, although you never know what the future holds. Don't want to come across as harsh but... I know what works and what does it work for me.

Well I feel like I've written way too much... I'd love to hear from anybody who's interested. Tell me what you're looking for and where your favorite place to go on vacation is! I'll be around and you know how to reach me! 😉.