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39 [F4M] We can't be all things to all people...
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4n20-BlackBirds is a female age 39 looking for a male
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... but we can be someone special regardless.

I've been married for 11 years, and while my husband and I are a good team, he's just not capable of meeting all my needs (and to be fair, I doubt I can do the same for him either, but that's beside the point at present.)

I'd love to build a space with another man here that's just for us to meet those needs. I crave things like intellectualism and creativity, the care of good mornings and goodnights, sex, and the fun of talking about a tv show we both like. I want to be seen and cared for and I want to reciprocate.

Physically, I'm a cute chubby tattooed woman who wears mostly black. I live in the US (mst) and have no kids. I love cosmic horror, ttrpgs, and making things. I mostly listen to darkwave/goth music, with a smattering of other metal subgenres and industrial, but I grew up as a classical musician, so I have an appreciation for more than that.

You're a man between 40-55 who lives in North America and has time for this. I do believe physical attraction is important, so in general, I'll say that I find men who are more or less HWP who have well groomed beards and body mods the most attractive.

So, what can we be for each other? What can we both bring to the table to make our lives happier? Let's find out.

Edit: Uhh. Guys. When you message, could you please start a conversation and not just list off a litany of statements starting with "I". I need some personality here. Thanks.

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a female
Age
39
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a male
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