Ever feel like something’s missing? Not in the big, dramatic way, but in those small, quiet moments that could be brighter, sharper, more alive with the right kind of connection? That’s the spark I’m chasing. An effortless bond full of humor, warmth, and maybe just the right amount of mischief to keep things interesting.

About Me:

I’m 38, East Coast based (EST), and married (not here to change anyone’s situation). Standing 6’1 with broad shoulders and a solid, muscular build layered with a little extra comfort, I’ve got hazel eyes, a trimmed beard with hints of grey, and a few tattoos that each carry their own story.

I’m the type who thrives on both humor and depth. I love a good laugh, a little teasing back and forth, and those deeper conversations that make you feel truly seen. Whether it’s cheering you on after a win or just brightening your day with a quick “good morning,” I’m here for the moments that matter.

What I’m Into:

A balance of active and nerdy: rec-league sports like beach volleyball, concerts (rock and metal are favorites), binge-worthy TV shows, board games, and exploring new restaurants. Whether it’s diving into a great horror movie or discovering a quirky fact to share, I’m all about keeping things fun and fresh.

What I’m Looking For:

Someone who’s quick with a witty comeback, appreciates good conversation, and isn’t afraid to mix playful flirting with meaningful connection. I’m all for the spark of attraction, but I believe the best connections start with genuine friendship and trust.

If this sounds like your vibe, drop me a message! Tell me the last thing that made you laugh, a show you’re hooked on, or something you’re quietly proud of. Let’s see where this goes.