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Lately, I’ve been reflecting on what I am missing in my life - and I have come to realize that I am missing the kind of connection that doesn’t just fill a void but brings me joy. I’m looking for something deep and meaningful, the kind of chemistry that feels alive in the quietest moments. Empathy is a big one for me—real empathy, the kind that shows up in how someone listens, how they see you, how they hold space for you to just be.
I’m in a chapter of rediscovery right now, figuring out what it means to live with intention and heart. Life hasn’t always felt aligned, but I’m determined to make space for joy, curiosity, and genuine intimacy.
When it comes to the kind of man I’m looking for, I’m especially drawn to dominant men, preferably 40 , who are confident, self-assured, and know how to treat a good girl ;) I want someone who values emotional depth and vulnerability, someone who’s unafraid to open up, be authentic, and embrace the excitement of creating something real. I’m not looking for a fling. I’m seeking a boyfriend-style connection, not a passing afterthought.
Availability matters. If your time is mostly limited to work hours, it’s probably going to be hard for us to find the kind of connection I’m looking for. I value discretion and kindness, and I’m especially drawn to people who approach life with optimism and curiosity. I prefer if you have a creative streak and have experience with relationships like this.
If this resonates with you and you’re ready for something real, I’d love to hear from you. Just a heads-up—I’m only responding to men over 40 who are based in the U.S.
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