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37[M4F] US - Compromises, people pleasing, and ADHD
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Maximum-Emphasis5740 is a male age 37 looking for a female
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I got diagnosed with ADHD in my late thirties after my kid got diagnosed with it. And it lead me to reflect on a lot of things in my life. I realized when it comes to relationships, it can result in self care neglect. To the point of having health issues caused by my urge to be a people pleaser. I'm sure there are other factors that contribute to this and the severity variation from one person to another. But I'm sure some of you can relate. Especially in relationships with the opposite sex.

I went to therapy and realized the importance of boundaries. I'll admit, I'm not the best at it yet. But I'm making a lot of progress. But also, it made me appreciate people who have that trait. Most likely those are your ride or die type of friends.

What does that have to do with OAs? Well that was an alternative way to talk about myself. I'd add that I love learning and throwing myself into new hobbies. I'm not bad looking. I floss regularly.

If you can relate to the above, shoot me a text.

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Age
37
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a female
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