This is a question I’ve been asking myself lately. I’ve done a lot of self work over the last almost 10 years and have grown intellectually and emotionally as a person. Like many people, I am not the same young and oblivious person when I got married. I’d love to share my story and journey with you and hear about yours.

While I am not looking to leave my marriage, I have thought about the kind of person I’d want to be in relationship with if I had to start again with what I know about myself now. Here are some of the things that increase my chances of falling hard for you, and the more the better.

About her: Cares about her appearance, but not from a completely superficial perspective Intelligent, graduate degrees/ further education are a plus. Curious. When she find something (or someone) who interests her, she goes all in to understand High energy/ driven- someone who has a professional life and has achieved things or is on the verge of doing so Curvy, but physically active Attractive face and captivating smile Emotionally available, compassionate, and nonjudgmental Musical background/ singing is a plus Is open to sexual exploration and is happy to let me take the lead. Local to St. Louis or within an hourish

About me Physically 6’3”, HWP, shaved head, grey-blue eyes, goatee, and mischievous smile Dork (username checks out) Good at convincing people I’m smart/ know what I’m talking bout even if I don’t Emotionally available and intelligent, but I have my guilt in check Nonjudgmental and a good listener and provider of validation. Lover of music, theater, and instruments. I’m picking up one as we speak. Theoretically and practically know my way around the female form with explosive results. This I actually do know what I’m talking about.

So if you think we might have an intense connection, feel free to reach out and see if we can generate some TNT!