Sorry for the new account, but my other got banned for some stupid shit. All that to say that I have been doing online stuff for 5 years, so I have plenty of experience and understand discretion and privacy.

So yeah, I'm 41 and we are expecting our first baby this summer and I fully expect that to flip my world upside down. So right now all I can commit to is giving the best relationship I can until the baby arrives. Maybe we get close and you are understanding and we continue on after. I just cant promise anything at this point. I also understand that me being here and announcing that a baby is on the way is a little wild, but we are all here for different reasons and I'd be happy to answer any questions you may have.

So about me: I'm 41, located in the midwest USA, CST. I have a full time M-F 8-5 job. I am looking for something that will mostly be during working hours. I may be able to check in here and there in the evening, but I usually dont have space for full on in depth conversations in the evening. Weekends are hit and miss with my availability. Looking for someone who is in a similar situation and understanding of my availability.

I'm a very chill guy, 420 friendly, I'm not real exciting on the day to day - just being honest - but I love traveling, whether that is a weekend trip or to an exotic island. I listen to metal music and would love if you were into rock/metal, but not a deal breaker! I just love sharing my music and having you share yours with me. I also love going to concerts as live music is like my favorite thing ever. I watch sports, and occasionally go to games. I drink too much coffee and beer and consider myself a bit of a snob of both. I game a little on PS5 and switch, and watch a little tv. I'm addicted to game shows haha.

What am I looking for? We are all here to find that spark right? So yeah, I want that spark, the passion, the excitement of finding someone special. I crave attention and want to give you all of mine, I want someone who is just as into me as I am into them. I want to feel wanted and desired. You dont have to be into all the same things I am, but at least show an interest and ask me about my interests and my life. I want someone who cares. I have a lot of myself to give, but I dont give it to just anyone, you have to earn it, just as I fully expect to earn everything I want from you.

I wasnt sure whether to throw this out there or not, but I suppose I will. I also have a lot of experience as a daddy dom, though not a deal breaker at all if you are only looking for something vanillia. In fact I wont even bring it up unless you ask me about it. But I'm open to either kind of relationship, or something in the middle.

About you: Available to chat during the day, not cheating on me while I'm not free in the evening. I dont care if you have kids or if you work or not. An attraction is important to me, so while I dont mind some curves, I'm not looking for a BBW. I want someone who can hold their end of the conversation. You dont have to be exciting, we can be boring together haha.

I know I kind of put an expiration date on this, but I'm open to seeing how things go and going from there. Ultimately, I am looking for love.

I hope this finds the right person and you send me a message!