About Me:

I’m a 41-year-old married father who knows how to juggle ambition, adventure, and just the right amount of mischief. Standing tall at 6’1 with a fit, athletic build, piercing blue eyes, and blondish hair, I turn heads—and keep them turning—with charm, confidence, and a killer smile. I take pride in how I look and carry myself, whether I’m in a suit or casually making your heart race. I often get told I appear much younger than I am. A leader in my career and a thrill-seeker outside of it, I thrive on adrenaline, whether it’s crushing a workout, skydiving into the unknown, or coaching youth sports.

Balance is my game—structured enough to keep things stable, wild enough to keep life interesting. I bring passion, fire, and a little chaos to every connection, while still being the guy who’ll ask if you’re hydrating or what book you’re getting lost in today. With me, you’ll find strength, tenderness, and a relentless drive to make life anything but ordinary.

In the bedroom? I take charge—confident, dominant, and in tune with what makes us both lose track of time. Outside of it, I crave connection—deep conversations that linger long after the night ends and laughter that echoes well into the next day. Trust, discretion, and chemistry are my cornerstones—I’ve done this before, but each affair is its own intoxicating experience, and I never lose sight of that spark.

What I’m Looking For:

I am seeking a Longterm emotionally, mentally and sexually mutually satisfying affair. I am open to both in person and long distance online only affairs. I prefer an affair where we can communicate regularly through another app and not just by text but also through voice and video when opportunity presents itself. I want to know someone inside and out. I want to be your safe place where you can let go of the walls you’ve had to build to protect yourself.

I want a woman aged 30-55 who’s as emotionally intelligent as she is physically alluring. You’re driven, confident, and can handle life with both grace and grit. Whether you’re smashing your goals or laughing at life’s curveballs, you know how to balance ambition with playfulness. Fit to average body types make my head turn—bonus points for a dazzling smile and a captivating booty.

Femininity that radiates strength, confidence that draws attention, and the ability to shift from fiercely independent to tenderly vulnerable—that’s what I admire. You’ve got a passion for life, a high libido that matches mine, and an adventurous spirit when it comes to exploring emotional and physical intimacy. Whether it’s a deep conversation over wine or a spontaneous rendezvous, you’re the kind of woman who can keep up with my pace—and match my fire.

If This Sounds Like You:

Reach out if you’re ready for something exciting, meaningful, and maybe a little addictive. I’m here for bold conversations, shared dreams, and adventures that leave us breathless—whether it’s a secret escape or simply savoring life’s chaotic beauty together.

If you’re intrigued, let’s turn curiosity into connection. Who knows? We might just create something unforgettable. Ready to play? Let’s light this fire and see where it takes us.