I've never posted here but would be lying if I said I wasn't curious.

I'm an educated professional, 6'1", brown hair with blue eyes with an average body type. I would say on the attractive side, but you can decide that.

I quite like intellectual extremes. My hobbies are reading, writing, listening to and playing music and going to museums and galleries.

I can't see any timezone other than UK/GMT working, and think it would also be nice to know we're both on the same landmass. Brexit and all that 😂

I'm interested in something long term. Primarily online, but if the attraction is there perhaps meeting in the future.

The below are thoughts I've collected over the period of a week whilst my account comes of age to post.

Aphorisms

The concept of a single affair partner advances a monogamous notion of non-monogomy

In the possibility of meeting somebody, we encounter the horror of not meeting anybody.

We seek to defy a truth - Love is free, time is not.

An affair partner is a last ditch attempt at avoiding true loneliness.

Is monogomy the problem?

We desire to be seen, loved and recognized. What if we are wholly hideous hence why we are here, amongst company?

We are in amongst others who cannot meet their needs in a relationship, assuming that we can meet our needs with others who cannot.

We search for others not to find them but to escape ourselves.

We believe that more love will fix what less love broke.

We crave the validation of being irreplaceable while ensuring no one is indispensable to us.

What we call love may be little more than the projection of our unmet needs onto another’s fragile shadow.

Loneliness is not being alone but feeling unseen and unknown, even among others

If we are unsatisfied or unfulfilled - are our partners also?

Are we duplicitous, or seekers of beauty?