Hello fellow hopeful beings, I hope this post finds you in a good health. I should give fair warning that I’m looking for a non traditional dynamic, so if you are looking for that I’d advise you to continue your search. Like most, if not all, on here I am married, and have been for some time now. I don’t intend on changing my status anytime soon, but am hopeful to add something on the side.

I am seeking a woman who might be curious about being in a dominant position. Someone who has a kinky side they wish to explore. I myself am a switch,but am very deprived of the submissive urges I tend to have. Obviously in any health kink relationship there has to be a connection and trust built up. So to me this dynamic has to be more than just something of a sexual nature. I envision it being a good mix of the usual subjects one might engage in with a relationship, and moments more on the kinky side. I do have ideas as to what the kinks might include and would love to share those ideas with you.

About myself: I am 28, I live in Washington, and am a carpenter by trade. I enjoy being nerdy, I’m currently on a Star Trek kick, I’m also rereading some fantasy books from my younger years. I play tabletop games, video games, and also do wood working projects as a hobby.

I’d argue it helps to have similar likes as myself but I also enjoy discovering new hobbies and interests, so you don’t have to be an identical copy of me. I tend to be shy initially, but once I’ve warmed up to you, I’m like a koala bear.

So if you might have an inclination to explore your dominant side, or maybe already have and are looking for a new toy to play with please give me a shout. I’ll even give you a good starting talking point. “If you could travel to any fictional world, where would you go and why?” I hope to hear from you soon.