It's as though this concept baffles the mind of the general public. "What do you mean you want to get to know me and what makes me tick? We've talked for 2 minutes and we aren't in love. This is bullshit"

I will never understand most people here because let's face it, we are all expecting different things. I myself am demisexual which should already tell you alot about me. If it doesn't then I shall explain. I want to know you. I want to know your mind and your heart. The more I feel for you in those ways the more attractive you become to me. The more I want you. Yes I am a man and physical attraction plays its part. But I want your mind. I want to know your thoughts and opinions. I want to laugh with you at our quirks. I want to discovery a connection that seems to elude most who post here.

Yes we are here for any affair but if we hit it off why hold back? "I only use telegram, I only use snap," that sounds to me like someone who's not trying to find an affair. You want a fling. You want to have no attachment. To me that's boring. I want friendship, I want tension, I want passion.

I want an addiction. An addiction that can only be satisfied by your voice, your face, your heart, your mind.

I'm a hopeless romantic what can I say. To look at me you'd probly see an intimidating, tattooed, bearded, blue eyed bear of a man. And you wouldn't be wrong. But become a part of me and I'll protect and look after you as such.

If you're still reading this and think there is hope send me a message of what you really want from here. Send me a selfie, if you do ill send one right back. I don't want to waste your time on a fruitless endeavor. But if you're that person I want to waste all the time you have.