Happy Monday! Hopefully you survived the weekend and are ready to get back to work! (Or however you spend your weekdays). I’ve been in the OA game for a while, but have been without a partner recently. I’m ready to start something new now! I want to find my person in 2025. In order to do that, I’ll make a very honest post of what I want/need and hope one of you matches the description!

I’ll start with the few things that have been seen as dealbreakers in the past for some. My marriage isn’t terrible. I don’t live a sexless life. So that lumps me into the “cake eater” category I guess. That doesn’t mean I still don’t want feelings and intimacy with an online relationship. I very much do.

Secondly, my availability is generally during work hours. I don’t like the term “work wife”, but that is how it is seen. I will make time outside of work for the right connection but can’t guarantee chats all night every night.

Those are my only two “flaws” (kidding), but I know some of you are in the same situation. I have had wonderful connections with women even with my “limitations”. So I hope those don’t scare you away.

Now on to the good parts. I’m educated and work a professional career from home. I enjoy my career, but enjoy being a dad more. I want to be open sharing parts of our lives, including kiddos (with limitations, of course). I stay active and in shape. I like to keep myself looking good. I usually get compliments on my appearance. But I’d let you judge that for yourself. Humor is huge for me. I like to think I am funny. I try not to take life too seriously.

I would love for you to be a mom. Have a career or be a kickass SAHM. Be open to sharing pictures of your day (once trust is established).

Let’s start a conversation and see if we connect! And move off reddit asap because it’s the worst!!