Would I like a long term connection that vibes naturally? Yup.

Am I too wise to demand that upfront? Again. Yup.

I’m 42, married, and a mom to one. I’m one of the most talkative people I know, always interested in meeting new people and hearing their stories, what makes them tick. For me, conversation and communication are key to the fun in this place. I have time and availability to get to know someone, with the hope that you have the same. It won’t work if it’s only 9-5.

My interests tend toward the intellectual. I have a thing for historical fiction and musical theater. I like discussing social issues and different viewpoints. I don’t go to the gym or workout. I’m all for having a drink and watching some baseball or football, but I’m no athlete. I’m petite and slim and my life is pretty active.

I’m looking for someone in the 35-45 range who is also not completely miserable in their less than perfect marriage. Someone hoping to find a friend and not a one-off sexting buddy. I’m a whole person kind of person and have found that I can be attracted to a wide range of looks when I’m attracted to a personality. I just ask that you have an average build and no face tattoos.

I’d want the fun of picture swapping, voice notes, video calls and spicy talk when it feels right. Telegram being where it goes from Reddit.

So hit me with a chat, let me know a bit about you and what you’re looking for. Full sentences and reasonable grammar and punctuation can be sexy, and a sense of humor is one of the sexiest things of all.

Did you read the whole thing!? Awesome, I’ll really appreciate you letting me know that by telling me the last new word you learned. Mine’s macerate, which sounds dirty but isn’t.