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Isn't that what you thought you were signing up for before? I feel like I'll never lose my passion, but God do I miss seeing that reflected in someone else. I honestly felt like I could keep sense of excitement, novelty, romance, and passion going strong for decades with someone. I guess I'm still trying to find out if that's possible.
I'm a lot of things with a lot of parts. I'm nerdy and love board games, adventurous and love thrills, quiet, slightly pensive and thoughtful and like being on my own, and then extremely social and talkative, ready to go on diatribes and soliloquies about anything that sparks an interest. I could keep going, but just know that I love to explore all of those parts of myself with someone else. I really want to find someone else who inspires that sort of exploration.
I have plenty of interests, but nothing keeps me centered and healthy like the outdoors and staying active. I love climbing, skiing, and any kind of water feature ya got. All of it keeps me really fit, but mostly keeps me emotionally fit. Someone who finds similar ways to stay emotionally and physically healthy and likes the outdoors would be a really nice bonus. I also am extremely into others who are musical, intelligent, love board games, are competitive, love bantering but have a huge heart... In all honesty, I just love curious people and the more passions you have, the better.
In all honesty, I don't have all THAT much time to just freely chat. I also despise the term pocket boyfriend. Mostly because I feel like that's just such a small way to think of what this could be. I just want to be someone that you adore. I want you to feel adored. When I care for someone, I love to find the ways to show them that makes them feel seen. I love to make someone feel seen. And I want someone else who's good at that, as well.
There's so much to say, and depending on my day, so much variety in what I want. I just know that there's this love out there that can feel so... inspiring. Filling. Connecting. And I want that again.
Feel free to ask me anything you want to know-- this should be mutual. But if any of that feels like it resonates with you, maybe reach out.
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