I posted about a month ago and thought I found what I was looking for but things haven’t really worked out to how I want so sadly back again. I’m starting fresh with a cleared inbox reposting what I originally did but please…. Don’t reach out without reading and don’t just send me a “hi”. This isn’t game to me.

About me:

-Married for some time now and not a cake eater. I’m not going to be getting a divorce but I have my own issues and voids in marriage

-No kids but it doesn’t bother me if you have any as long as you don’t resent being a parent / love your kids

-I work full time but have lots of flexibility to chat

-I enjoy a lazy night at home but also love going out to enjoy myself with some good drinks. I love watching a good show or playing games

-I am very into fitness and taking care of my body. I’m on the shorter side and not overweight but have curves in the right place.

What I’m looking for:

-Someone in a similar situation as me from a marriage standpoint. I don’t want a cake eater

-You’ve done this before and know what you want. You’re not afraid to catch feelings and want something exclusive.

-You have the time to dedicate to this and do all the things like send pics, videos and do calls. I’m not looking for a short fling or to just get off sexually. I want a long term committed AP who will match my energy and eventually want to meet up as well

-You’re fit and active yourself. I typically like a man who hits the gym like I do lifting weights and has an athletic physique. I like muscles lol

-You don’t mind if I’m not pc and will joke around and have banter with me. I can have deep convos but I also love being playful messaging and on calls together

-Please be older than 28 and younger than 45

-I’ve found folks closer to my time zone usually works best but if you’re a night owl I’m sure we can make it work too

-I’m picky. I’m looking for someone I find handsome and attractive so I will ask to swap pics immediately off the bat. I’ll respond more quickly if you lead with a picture too.