What I’m seeking: Connection. Adventure. Fun. Something that we’re both excited about. All those dreams we keep having, I want to find a way to enjoy them together.

I want to bring a smile to your face. I want the connection that is often mentioned on here in posts. I’ve searched for a while, and have come up lacking more often than I’d care to admit (with some fun success along the way), but I still am such a glass-half-full guy that I will probably never stop believing “it” is out there.

A bit about me: 38. Married. Kids. Physically, I’m told I’m very handsome/attractive. Sounds conceited, but I also think it’s important to not sell myself short! I’m over 6’ tall, fit, with the silver streaks in my head full of hair to boot.

Professionally successful, and very driven. I push myself hard in nearly every aspect of my life. I have interests and experience all over…from traveling, music, outdoor adventures, all the way to horseback riding and the latest rom com.

A bit more about me: I’m a bit of an oxymoron in this sub (or so I think so). I know this is wrong, and I kinda hate that about it, but I also desperately seek some fun connection that reminds me that I’m alive. I weirdly want us both to feel the same way. It’s always a little strange to me when people view this as 100% acceptable. Let’s be honest. It’s not. There’s a reason we hide it. That all said, life has a whole lot of gray area, and I think it’s good to have a healthy perspective that it’s wrong, but we both want it, and that makes it kinda right, ha (justification at its finest). Probably a good place to insert the obvious “don’t want to change our situations” comment that we often joke about.

What/who I want: I want that person that’s been needing “more” to get that feeling she’s been missing/craving/begging for. Someone that is kind and understanding. We have separate lives, and we both understand that those lives will always come before this fun adventure we go on. That said, we also know the dedication that is required to make each other feel that connection we’re craving. We give/take, and we lend grace/understanding to each other when possible.

Laws of (physical) attraction: Despite knowing this will likely be an online thing, attraction is critical for me. Maybe not so for everyone, but it is for me. I’m so sorry to be picky but I am a very strong believer that we have to be attracted to each other. I’m attractive, and I want to find someone that just clicks for me physically. Sometimes difficult to explain, but I think we all know when we’ve got it. For me typically “attractive” is someone that takes care of themselves physically. Typically thin, slim, or athletic. A great smile. Pretty face. Confidence goes quite a long way as well, but happy to feed that confidence.

Look forward to chatting :)