Hello men of Reddit,

So I kinda hate it here lol at least the beginning of posting, looking at so many messaging, trying to have multiple conversations to see who you actually click with AND find attractive, because both are important.

Now, this time around I am looking for something specific so please only reply if you meet the criteria (I know many of you still will, you suck).

2025 for me is starting off strong. I have goals I want to achieve. I’d like to try a lot of new things. Face fears and jump out of a plane. Create foundational routines that set my life up for success. Improve in my leadership skills. I want to look good, feel good and be a ball of sunshine while doing it.

I’m looking for someone in a similar headspace! Someone who is investing in themselves, who has a growth mindset and is more optimistic than not. Ideally, you have time for this, are over 35, have plenty of confidence, and are great at words of affirmation.

About me:

I am 33, no kids with two pups. I am in a marriage that fulfills certain components while lacking in others. I am not someone who will bash their partner. I actually find it really attractive when you’re a great husband and we can talk about our marriages in a good light versus just venting about crap thats within your control. I have a career I love! I travel a ton for work so the option for in person is an option if this works out. I love who I am. I love how well I show up in life. I would consider myself attractive both internally and externally. Now, I have some flaws too! I get bored easily, I don’t put up with bs, I like what I like how I like it, my emotions tend to wild out on occasion.

Well if you’ve made it this far and think we would be a good match, let’s connect! Let me know what you’re most excited for this year :)