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Alright. We're here again. I'm grabbing a drink and seeing if anyone interesting is out there tonight.
What do I want? Confidence. Intelligence. Charm. If you’ve got a quick mind and a sharp sense of humour, I’m interested. Weak attempts at flattery? Not for me. I want someone who can hold their own in a conversation and flirt without looking desperate. If you can’t keep up, keep scrolling. I’m looking for someone who knows how to engage, challenge, and entertain - if you don’t have the substance to back up your style, don’t bother trying to impress me.
Looks matter. Chemistry matters. Brains and wit matter more, but if there’s no attraction, we’re done before we even start. If you can’t make me laugh, challenge me, or keep me engaged, this won’t work. I want someone who can take charge, give me shit when I deserve it, and be there for me when I need it. I'll be all that and more for you too (except the taking charge part, I'll leave that up to you (no, that's not an invite for the cringey "doms" to flood my inbox)).
I’m not here for casual. I’m looking for a long-term connection where we can both grow, push each other, and enjoy the ride. I don’t need a yes-man or someone who’s just along for the ride. I need someone who can bring something to the table, keep me on my toes, and make me want to see what comes next.
And the basics: 5'7, in shape, married, dead bedroom, not my first rodeo, MST and I can handle a few hours of time difference no problem but let's keep it to North America please.
And please start with an interesting first message. Might lose my mind if I see one more "hey talk to me" message.
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