Do you remember that delicious thrill when your phone buzzes, and you can't help but eagerly check who’s on the other side? That moment before a date when your heart races, and you find yourself pacing, anticipation taking over? Or that feeling when you wake up with a smile, replaying the spark of last night in your mind?

I have a feeling we might be searching for the same kind of excitement, don't you think?

I'm new to this space, trying to find someone who craves that extra bit of connection. I’ve tried a couple of other apps like Bumble, but let’s just say, it didn’t quite ignite the way I’d hoped.

A little about me: I’m 38, married for 10 years, no kids, living in London. I'm 5'9", with dark brown eyes, black hair that has a touch of silver (a sign of wisdom, I like to think), and a well-kept beard. I take care of myself, physically and mentally.

Lately, I've been called “handsome” and “charming” by a few women with great taste—flattery that never goes unnoticed. But it's more than looks I'm after... it's that undeniable spark.

I love exploring the finer things in life: indulging in great food, discovering hidden bars, snowboarding in the winter, and unwinding on a beach in the summer. I can't quite handle horror movies, but I promise to make you laugh instead. We can chat in more than one language, and I’m happy to keep the conversation flowing all day long. And if we hit it off, I’d love to take you out somewhere special and make it a night to remember.

I’m looking for a like-minded soul who’s open to exploring this together. If you’re married, that could be an exciting bonus. Let’s take it slow, get to know each other, and see where the chemistry takes us.

One thing you should know—I don’t ghost. If it’s not working for me, I’ll be upfront. No games, just honesty. And while I’m not looking to rush into anything, I’m open to seeing where things go, at whatever pace feels right.

After all in adultery there are no winners, but taking part is more important than winning!