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From what I gather, every f4m post gets a flooded inbox, and you find yourself wading through messages trying to find a spark. Sometimes you get one, but it fizzles and the conversation goes boring.
In my experience, m4f posts get few if any responses, usually right after posting, and then things fizzle pretty quick.
I’ll be honest with you. I want to just get to know someone and have some nice chats. We’re here, so obviously we have intentions for things to maybe get heated after a while, but I don’t want to dive right into that. Maybe I won’t be as entertaining as you want right off the bat, but I’ll share cute pictures of my pets and tell you about my life. I’d really appreciate the same level of openness from you. I can crack a dad joke here and there, but I’m not here to play games, I’d like to build a secret relationship with someone.
Maybe I’m too trusting, but I’d like to share pics pretty early on, let’s know who we’re talking to and see where it goes.
Let’s play 20 questions back and forth a few times, interrogate each other a bit, share some opinions on some things.
Surely there’s someone else out there who’s tired of the trying too hard, the expectations of constant entertainment, the pressure to get sexual right out the gate. Can we just be people chatting to get to know each other for a bit?
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