I am a 23 year old married man looking for a discreet partner; it can be just online chats or we could have a meetup once in a while. All I’m looking for is someone who’s easy to talk with, good with communication, and who is very open about with their feelings. I’m also looking for mutual respect, excitement, and for us to motivate one another with our life goals. I am very much a casual conversation person; if we can’t have a non-romantic connection outside of sexting or hooking-up with one another, it isn’t interesting. I have a lot of surface-level knowledge on a lot of topics and love to watch or read other people’s favorite media. Face-pictures won’t be necessary and I’m very much judgement-free. A good personality and the ability to keep up a good conversation is all someone needs to be attractive in my eyes.

For physical relationships, age, weight, etc doesn’t matter to me. I crave intimacy during sex above everything; eye-contact, hand-holding, and talking to each other throughout is a must. After-care is must as well, but that tends to go without saying. I love foreplay and going down on someone so long as you’re telling me what to do, where to put my tongue, etc! Kink-wise, I’m (unfortunately) pretty inexperienced but open to try just anything once.

I’m 5’9, mixed-race, with brown eyes, short black hair, and sitting around 215-220 pounds. I’ve been going on late-night and early morning runs to try to get back into shape after an injury. “Athletic” isn’t the word I’d use to describe my build, but I can definitely keep up a fast pace on a long hike or a short run. As for hobbies, I have an incredibly long list, but my top three are pretty basic. I enjoy reading, hiking, and love tattoos.

And to cut a sob story short, I made the mistake of checking through my partner’s phone two months ago and found that she had been having affairs prior to our wedding. I didn’t tell her and she eventually confessed to it but our sex life hasn’t been the same since. It isn’t quite a dead bedroom, but the intimacy and passion that we once had is long gone and she has show zero interest in rekindling it.