What I'm looking for:

• Married with kids. No exceptions. There are many wonderful girlfriends and wives without children or dog/cat mom's in this space, but I'm not looking for that. I'm looking for a fellow parent. Preferably with kids in school. It helps us relate. We will be in the same place in life. It just doesn't work otherwise. Believe me, I've tried. 
• Not a fan of the incoming presidential administration. You have empathy and like to think.
• Not a cake eater, just looking for NRE or are just bored. You want to build something that will last.
• You've done this before with some level of success. Especially online. You know what it takes to keep it going. The effort. The thoughtfulness. The attention to detail to keep us both safe from spouses. You aren't careless with thoughts, feelings, yours or mine. You aren't gonna back out at the last second. You're ready.
• Not asking for pics up front. We are gonna get to know each other first. See if we even like each other, then we'll see about the physical. No point in seeing what we look like if we don't even get along. I will say I've gotten more Oooos than Ehhhs once we get to the pics, but beauty, as always, is in the eye of the beholder.
• Love is off the table. But several other L words are not; longing, deep, deep like, lust and I'm sure more. We'll think of some
• I saw another post mention stalker tendencies preferred. Basically borderline that. Once we get past the intro and trust stage, I want to be all in. Share our lives. As much as we can, as often as we can. Too much is never enough.
• In your 40s. Older is definitely ok. Again, just easier for us to relate. 
• You aren't a model, neither am I, but you take pride in your appearance, even if no one at home notices any more. You are ready to be appreciated again. Let's make each other comfortable in our own skin. Figuratively and literally when the time comes.
• You have a libido. An active one. Maybe an over-activate one. That's something we can have in common.
• PST or close is preferred. Helps with communication. The most important thing is that our availability matches up. I'd love for this to be IRL at some point, but this will mostly be our medium and the way we share our lives. We have to make the most of it.
• Quirky, off beat, silly, odd... anything but normal. You have a personality that maybe is misunderstood or not appreciated. I want to experience it.
• You have passions. Things you like. Things you hate. Things that amaze you. Things that move you. Share them with me. I want to know it all.
• You like to converse. You enjoy back and forth. Sometimes I lead, sometimes you do. Neither of us will have to do all the heavy lifting all the time. 
• Not using this as a way out of your marriage/relationship. I'm not a tool or means to a divorce or separation.

What I bring:

• Passion. Lots of it. I will think about you night and day. You'll get the good mornings, good nights and everything in between as long as you promise to match me. 
• Attention. I crave it. I want to give it. Lots of it. I want to be infatuated with you, and you with me. I want us to be obsessed with each other.
• Humor. I like to laugh. There is usually a one liner in me somewhere just waiting. I want to make you laugh and smile.
• Effort. I'm not afraid of it. I know what it takes. I'll give you everything I possibly can at every turn. I want you to feel me with you, even in the times I can't be.
• The everyday. I'm not gonna message you only when convenient or bored. I'm gonna share the mundane everyday stuff as much as the deep, passionate, naughty stuff. I want to celebrate all your victories, big and small, as well as support you when the times are tough. I want to know about your day. What you think. How you feel. Every possible moment. Please do the same.
• Actions that match the words; I'll do what I say and say what I do. This will be a real relationship with real feels. Communication is key. If you're gonna stop the good mornings/nights after a day or two, I'm not for you. If you are gonna disappear for a day or two without warning, we're not gonna last. There is no reason to lie to each other in our situation, which is a weird contradiction.
• Currently using Discord or Skype. Those are my options for now.

So, what do you think?