It’s difficult to know what to write in these posts. Do I wax lyrical about how I’m everything you’ve been looking for here, declaring I’m the most handsome man you could hope to meet and my banter is top notch?

Or should I lay bare my need my anxieties or fears? Be vulnerable and share the emotional side I am really seeking?

The truth is neither feel overly right. But I have to write something. If you’re reading this, you are probably hoping to know something about me that should indicate whether you want to message me or not!

I’ll start with this. I’ve been creeping the OA page for a while. More of a recent poster, in the last few months. Nothing had quite clicked just yet. I want to meet someone here that can meet conversationally, that has an emotional depth married with a fun banter. I want your mind to be gripping and intelligent and your hobbies to be fascinating.

As for looks. I think this is something we all skirt past. Surely we all have a type, or at least within a range. Mine is someone who tries to stay active (not necessarily skinny). I’ll be honest and say I’m more of a brunette man, but some blondes have caught me eye from time to time.

And what about me? Well, I’m 5’1….

Just kidding. If you’ve made it this far through my novel, I’m a 6’2, blue eyed, brown haired English man. I have tattoos, a short beard. I’m married, of course, with 2 kids. I’m fit, lean, and stay in shape. I love sports, but also love reading and everything nerdy. I would love to find someone who can attract me physically and be as nerdy as me. Or someone who can challenge me fitness wise!

If you’ve made it this far, well done! You might as well say hello now.