Hey there, thank you for taking your time to click and read, hopefully I can make it worth your time.

I'm 43 year old Aussie (SA based). I have been with my partner for nearly 20 years, have 2 children and 2 cats as well. I'm looking for a connection that just hasn't existed at home for some time though not wanting to change anyone's circumstances. Unfortunately not much has changed in the past 12 months since I last posted here and again finding that I need something else than what life is offering.

My days generally involve work during business hours, and I actually generally really like my job as I get to help people and some days get some great outcomes. Outside of work, have some sport that play during the summer and also work on some woodwork projects when I can find the time. Otherwise enjoy listening to music or a podcast (generally while working in the shed), concerts, the occasional musical, reading, games or just relaxing with friends and a drink.

What I'm hoping to find is that someone where when you get a message it brightens up your day and brings a smile to your face. Someone that can share everything with from the normal day to day stuff, how you are feeling, what you love doing and also your ultimate fantasies.

I haven't listed any preferences for what I'm looking for as the most important thing is a connection to the person and can only really see if that exists once we start talking. I do want to find that person where I no longer need to post here again.

If you are at all interested and want to see if we click, send me a message and let me know about your most recent concert that you have been to or just what your plans are for this weekend.

Hope to chat soon.