Life isn't usually what we expect it to be, having dreams and hopes that seem unreachable, but we still can try to search for some happiness. I feel I have so much to offer, share my thoughts and creativity, getting back those butterflies when you know you're special for someone and feeling excited with every message. I can't be the only one feeling like that, and I would love to meet someone in a similar situation and discover a beautiful mind.

I'm 38, married with one kid, in a relationship that has lost all passion and feels like routine. I've been living most of my life in Spain but I lived for a few months in Portugal and Italy. Now that I work from home I came back to my hometown, it's a nice place with lots of history and great food, but I may be a bit biased about it! I have quite a few hobbies, maybe too many of them, and I usually hop from one to another: reading (mainly fantasy and history novels), drawing when I need to relax and empty my mind, painting, crafting, movies (horror movies are my guilty pleasure, I'm always trying to find new ones), traveling to new places and explore every corner, writing... My job doesn't allow me to get very creative so I try to fill that need in different ways, I love starting little nerdy projects. I'm 180cm/5'11 tall, pale skin that doesn't fit the Spanish stereotype too much but who cares about stereotypes, and you'll find me smiling almost anytime. Oh and I probably have a cute accent but I can't judge that! I have lots of patience, probably developed during my time when I was working as a professor, and I've been told I'm a good listener.

I would love to meet someone to share my days, I'm a night owl so I'm open to any time zone, those long conversations dragging until late at night sound really perfect to me. Maybe we share some of those hobbies, but even if we don't, I like learning something new and that could be the best way to open our minds. Age is not important to me at all, only the feeling of being compatible. Also please I need some communication during the day, just 2 or 3 random messages are not enough to know someone.

If you think we could get along well, just say hi! In the worst case scenario you'll get friend who can teach you some amazing Spanish curse words. The best case scenario could be anything in our minds, and I can't wait to start that journey by your side. Oh and whatever happens, I really hope you find what you're looking for and have a great life!