I never really know how to start these off… essentially I feel like we are all missing that want and desire.

I have been married for almost 7 years now and together for about 10. I really do love my husband, but I feel we are drifting apart more and more everyday. Hence, why I’m here on the black market of Reddit to see if someone is willing to scratch the surface.

I do not want to change my situation nor do I want to change yours. With that being said, I will not tolerate any bashing of the SO’s. I don’t mind the bantering, bitching, venting, you name it. I want to be the person you can confide in. Be vulnerable with me. Tell me things you can’t tell someone else as if you’re afraid of being judged. Because I know how it is. Everyone wants us to live this perfect life and it’s hard to hide things that are tearing us up.

All in all, I really want an emotional connection. I would love to have someone close if there is a genuine connection for the physical aspect or the possibility of a potential meet up. I want a good balance of both NSFW and SFW conversations. I do not have kids, and I know that can be a dealbreaker for most as I can’t relate to your personal life. I do have a professional career and enjoy the work I do. Giving me more time during the day to talk and communicate. Which in return I expect the same in return on the transparency of communication. I will not hold the conversation and spill my heart out to you if all I get is “same” or “that’s cool” response. Not even worth my time or effort.

I feel we shouldn’t settle for less and a mutual attraction is a must. I’m a white female, long brunette, green eyes, 5’3. I have been told I’m attractive but hey, maybe I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. Btw I’m in CST in the South/ Southeast area for reference. I do prefer talking to someone is also married.

If you do respond please tell me your ASL and an idea of who I’m talking to. Maybe a cute cheesy pick up line. I have a very sarcastic and sassy sense of humor. Hopefully you can keep up 😉