What are you looking for?  I want a lot. I want someone who is always on my mind, someone who fills the voids of everyday life.  Someone who I share so much of my life with, be it the everyday, special, or somewhere in between.  I want to feel her skin against mine when we can meet up.  I want to taste her kisses on my lips days after we’ve last seen each other.  I want to be startled out of a daydream thinking of her.

I know that it’s a lot, and not what everyone is looking for here, and that’s fine. But I know someone else is looking for this, too.  Is it you? 

For anyone looking for more specifics, here you go:

Me:

-        49, married, kids still in the house

-        5’10” 195 lbs

-        Brown eyes and brown hair (though graying)

-        Dead bedroom

-        Well-educated and well-read

-        Active and fit, love the outdoors

-        Very communicative:

o   Text first thing in the morning and last thing at night

o   Talk about all sorts of stuff – intellectual, funny, mundane, erotic (when the time comes)

o   Tell stories of my life so that you can get to know and understand me

o   Check my phone all the time and respond quickly

o   Let you know if I’ll be unavailable for a period of time

-        Passionate, caring, and honest person (within the confines of this lifestyle)

-        Attentive and generous lover

You:

-        45-55, married, preferably kids still in the house

-        Dead bedroom

-        Experienced in the affair lifestyle

-        Good availability for texting, video messages, calls

-        Smart, opinionated, caring, generous, worldly

-        Engaging to text with

o   Starts conversations, not just answer questions

o   Able to text paragraphs, not just single sentence (or word) answers

o   Share stories of your life, past, present, and hopes for the future

o   Listens to my stories with interest

o   Laughs at my jokes (ok, only if they’re funny)

-        Willing to leave voice and video messages, and share photos

-        Interested in meeting in person at the right time

If this fits what you’re looking for, I’d love to hear from you!