Quick about me: I'm 6'2", 225 lbs, East Coast, US preferred but not necessary, most common response to my picture is that I'm handsome, very handsome, or I'm embarrassed to show you my picture now. I've also had a few flat passes. I give off nice guy vibes, but you'd be wrong to assume that's all there is. I'm successful in my career, and an interactive dad to three kids I enjoy very much. I have time for deep conversations during the work day and at nights. I can still chat at other times, but the fam comes first.
I tend to have intellectual or geeky pursuits. I also adore being outside and getting away from all things tech for a while.
I am in a dead bedroom situation with my spouse of over 15 years. I'm not going to sob into your shoulder, but if you ask how I'm doing and it involves her, I'm going to tell you. I do the vast majority of household chores, and I'm the one my kids go to in the middle of the night or first thing in the morning.
If you're in a similar boat to anything I described, chances are we'll click all the better.

Your smile is and will always be more powerful to me than any other body part. I'm vastly more interested in your mind and being as a woman than your feminine body parts alone. Don't get me wrong, attraction is necessary, but it's the start of the conversation, not the end of it. Your smile let's me know your intent. It lets me know our connection. It lets me know your desire. Your smile is the light in which I see the rest of your beauty.

Who are you? What have you overcome in your life? What are you proud of? What question do you wish people would ask but never do? What insane move did you do and it turned out way better than you even dreamed? What do you regret about not making a move like that? More than what music do you like, but why do you like that kind of music? Who are you?

I ultimately want to create a space where we can be ourselves warts and all with each other. A space so liberating I can easily tell you I'm feeling amorous while you feel no guilt in telling me your day has been terrible and just can't tonight. A place with as little judgement and condemnation as possible. The idea of this is inherently stressful. If you're looking for someone to hear you blow off some steam, lift your spirits or meet whatever expectations you have (or still need to create), send me a chat. You deserve the warmth of your smile returned to you.