About my situation:

I'm in a long-term relationship with someone I care about deeply, but the spark between us has fizzled out—our relationship has become more like that of roommates with a shared Netflix account. It’s not a lack of love, it’s just that… well, things have become a bit routine. I'm not looking to change my living situation, but I could definitely use a little more excitement in my life. If you're here to judge, this isn't the place—keep moving along. Thanks!

About me:

I'm a 52-year-old guy who's learned to love life despite the chaos. I’m happy, healthy, and unreasonably optimistic (sometimes to the point of annoyance—sorry, not sorry). I recently realized that I’m an extroverted introvert with a dash of ADHD and a side of OCD. So if you catch me organizing my sock drawer, don’t worry—it’s just part of my charm. Oh, and squirrels? They're my Kryptonite.

I’m embracing a healthier lifestyle these days. Yep, I’ve turned into one of those people—but it’s either that or face-planting into a bag of chips. No kids, love my job, and when I’m not conquering the world, I’m binge-watching trashy reality TV or watching grown adults kick a ball around for 90 minutes. If you ever want to talk about why reality TV is so addicting, I’m your guy.

What I need:

Here’s the deal: I need someone who can keep up with my energy and enthusiasm for everything. I’m not here for just the “Good morning” texts and “Good night” kisses. I want the full experience—the random “What’s for dinner?” convos, shared eye-rolls at bad commercials, and all the little moments in between. Let’s build something real—not just a picture-perfect highlight reel.

Sexually:

Now, let’s get to the fun part. I’m a certified pleaser. Seriously. My focus is making sure you have a great time. Orgasm controller? Yep, I’m the one. Dominant? Absolutely, but in a way that’s fun, not scary. A little rough play? Sure thing. Bondage? If that’s your thing, I’m flexible (pun intended). Also, if you’re into sexting or phone calls that leave us both wondering how we’ll make it through the next day… I’m in.

Let’s be clear: I’m looking for more than just a casual “Hey, let’s hang out.” If that sounds like you, let’s chat… in more than 160 characters.