Hi there 👋🏾

Let me preface this by saying: I'm currently married & have no intention of changing that. My child currently lives in a happy home & that's all that matters to me. However, I'm currently unfulfilled in my marriage & seeking out more.

A little about me:

• I'm 30
• 5'3
• curly, black hair
• brown eyes
• tattooed
• I wear glasses
• a hybrid of a curvy mom bod & a gym rat
• lover of museums/art, music, food, traveling, & anime (I know, I know. Try not to judge lol)

What I'm looking for:

• You know when the conversation is so good that you lose track of time & before you realize it, it's time for you to go but the last thing you want is for the conversation to end? THIS . This is exactly what I'm looking for. That genuine connection where you can't get enough of each other. Just so eager to soak up your time/conversations together, no matter how lighthearted or serious the topic may be.

• It almost feels a little silly to type out on a subreddit for affairs, but l'd like for it to almost feel like we're dating. Not just instantly jumping into exchanging nudes & sexting, but seeing what's there. Building that desire until we both can't wait a second longer to explore it even further on a physical level.

• Ideally, this would build from exchanging messages & building comfort, to meeting & seeing if the connection translates in person as well, into more of a longterm arrangement & not just a one night stand.

• Looks wise, to be honest, I don't have a strict physical "type". I've dated a wide spectrum of men. I do notice that I have a soft spot for taller men, beards/facial hair, & someone who enjoys the gym/ being active however.

• Age wise, mid 20s to late 30s

• Location wise, while someone local to Illinois would be ideal I am open to long distance for the right match. I often travel & spend time in NYC, as well.

However, one immediate indicator that this will not work is if you align with anything that connects to the MAGA realm 🙃

If I've caught your eye & this feels like a good fit, please DM me to introduce yourself & tell me the current song you have on repeat or the last really good meal you had 💕