Seriously those are my words of wisdom be happy. Happy with yourself and fuck all those that make you feel less happy. Do what makes you happy. Just don't be dumb and mess up your life. Reality people. Keep the mind in reality. Just find what makes you happy. It may not be another person. It may be just working on yourself.

Find a new hobby. Get a new job. Do what it takes just find the smile you desire. I know you think someone else can make you smile but if you aren't capable of making yourself smile no one will. Hug those kids. Hug the wife. Tell them you love them even if they ignore you and piss you off.

Tell them you're thankful for them willing to be your emotional rage room. Some people don't even have someone to ignore them or eat dinner with. So count yourself somewhat lucky. If you do find someone to laugh with don't expect the world. Just enjoy the ride. Don't get bummed when life takes them where they need to go.

Some people just need a now. When they find their smile it's time for them to go on their journey. You should not keep a bird caged. For those who do find a friend just enjoy who they are. Don't try to make them what you want. Let them be who they are. Don't pressure them. Ask yourself why are we here and what would be the reasons they would search for someone. A lot of people want the idea of being in control for the first time in their life. Just let them live.

What the hell do I know though. Make yourself happy how you can. I'm just throwing out random unwanted advice. I'm just going to enjoy some wine or some whistle pig. Watch a ball drop and welcome 40 with open arms. I have a husband and a family so I should not complain. I just enjoy chatting with all you random strangers. My own social science experiment I've enjoyed over the years.

Keep it classy OA. You are an interesting bunch of people. Find the person you want and take your chance. The worst they can say is no. Enjoy your New Year's eve. Que Será, será.