Have you made your resolutions? I have a few that I am working towards! Happiness is my big one, hopefully this is a step towards that.

I’ll start with something I’m sure is wonderful to hear… I don’t know what I’m looking for. I'd like to say my person, but I feel like that's cliche. I just know that I am lonely and really dipping low lately. I just need someone to want me, and I want to want someone. I’ve read lots of ads, responded to none, just trying to navigate my feelings. I do know that I am looking for a deep connection, more than just pleasantries and small talk. Someone who has a good amount of time to talk as well. From what I’m reading there seems to be a lot of people that can only talk during small windows of time, I need more than that. Like me I hope that your family comes first always, but if you can disappear every evening and weekend that’s not ideal. I have plenty of time to talk and that’s not limited to Monday - Friday 9-5.

Ok so now that I’ve probably blabbed too much, a bit about me. Obviously married, I have children that mean everything to me. We have pretty busy schedules so I’m on the go a lot but that doesn’t mean I am not available often. I do work from home so that helps. I love movies and have seen a lot of shows… I generally keep something on while I’m working. I love sports, I have played nearly every one of them at some point in time and enjoy watching them. I’m not much of a gamer these days but sometimes I enjoy some mindless time on Minecraft with the kids or a game on Madden or NCAA football. I enjoy learning new things and meeting new people.. which is sometimes at odds with my introverted nature. I enjoy reading, mostly fiction. I love my job, I see myself retiring from where I work now. Im working on my health, getting back into lifting weights and eating better, I’ve got a ways to go but I’ve made good progress. If you’re looking for something me huge health and fitness nut with a 6 pack, I am not your guy. I’m generally a pretty positive person but lately have been grappling with some depression. I guess I’m at the age where it could just be a mid life crisis. What I really know is that I WANT to be happy. Anyways, that was all way too much to read and I’m sorry if you’ve made it this far. I feel like it is important to get as much out up front as possible.

About you.. preferably married or at least long term committed. Kids are optional but it does help us relate to each other better I think. Eastern time zone, I’d like to maximize the amount of time we’d have to chat, ideally. I do prefer women on the thicker side, but should be active as well. Sex isn’t the most important thing but it is important, so still having some sex drive is important. We don’t ever necessarily have to meet in person but it would be nice I think if that were a possibility eventually. Not a deal breaker for sure. Other than that I’m extremely flexible. Hopefully you made it this far.. I’m not a great writer and tend to ramble on so this post is probably awful, but I really needed to try. If you think we might have some compatibility please send me a message, tell me a hobby you have or a favorite tv show or movie. Hope to hear from you soon!