Well here we are searching and hoping, wondering if this time will be different. Well it is the end of one year and the start of a new one. Maybe this adds some sort of connection magic that will cause the stars to align for us this time around. My fingers are crossed are yours?

We all know why we are here, it’s for the same reasons. We are lacking something special and hoping to find it along the way. What’s missing depends on the person but it has consistently been some sort of attention. Whether in the bedroom, in general, or the feeling of big unseen or unappreciated. We all need that and crave it, it’s just natural to have the desire for that. I too am missing this I’m in a decent relationship but the emotional connection is missing. I want that spark, that longing to talk to someone and listen to them about their day, or what they see going to do today or this weekend. The water-cooler gossip from around the office. I want to be involved, and tell them my deepest darkest secrets. Have someone to trust more than anything else. Ultimately hoping for a long term AP, but we all know life happens so if it’s short term so be it.

I am not looking to change anyone’s situation, just add a new dynamic to it. Just add our own unique flare to each of our situations and environments. Give us something to look forward to, and a reason to sneak away to the bathroom or kitchen and send a quick text.

A little about me am married I have a step-son. Grew in a different part of the US, but now live in the north east. I have a dad bod with nicely trimmed beard.

I have availability almost all day everyday. There are some exceptions but thats with everything right? I understand that home life is a priority, as it is with mine. But I promise I will find time to make sure you’re at the top of my priority list as well. Hopefully you able to as well.

About you? Personality, funny and individual. These are the traits I’m looking for. Ideally you would be better 35-50 but I’ll make an exception for the right person. Also local would be wonderful, as if everything works out meeting up would definitely be in the cards. Tell me your favorite movie, and why? Curvy girls step right up! I would like to have pictures shared sooner rather than later so that we know what we are getting into.

Also I’m not afraid of catching feeling. Especially since this could be a long term thing. You have to have so emotional buy in right? I would love to have someone I can share my love with. Since I’m not able to really do that in the current situation.

DMs are open for the bombarding. I will try to respond to all messages, but those that give me something to respond to, will get replied to quicker.