Seriously. I'm tired of the this low effort nonsense. I know exactly what I want, and you should too.

I want daily communication, I want effort, I want you to care, I want you to be able to hold a conversation. You shouldn't be afraid of feelings developing. You're ok with a slower burn so we can get to know each other more. You're close to my age not older than 42. You have some nerdy tendencies. You have things that you're passionate about and willing to share. You are confident and put effort in your appearance. You do your best to take care of yourself. I know you're out there. If you feel like this matches you keep reading so I can tell you about myself.

I'm 6'0, 190lb. Middle Eastern. Light skin, dark hair, trim beard. Foodie love to cook. Nerdy - into tech, gaming and obscure documentaries about anything and everything. Love to laugh and make others laugh. And so much more that I'll love to get into once we get to talking.

Mutual attraction is important. And I think you'll find me attractive . And I need to be attracted to you for this to work. In the end we need to be both obsessed with each other. Otherwise what are we even doing if we're going to take this risk?

I'm going to put effort. I understand the challenges of this type of dynamic. I'm here looking to fall for my person while still understanding that this will need to be in the realm of an affair.

So if this at all resonates with you and you're TIRED of playing this stupid game of being ghosted or left on read then reach out! Let's end each other's searches and be there for each other over New Year's.

Ps. I live in CA so PST is my time zone and I would prefer if you were PST/MST. Telegram is my app of choice after we move on from reddit.