The end of the year is finally here, and I’m enjoying some well-deserved time off to breathe, recharge, and hopefully find someone new to connect with. If the holidays have blessed you with some extra downtime too, maybe we can spend it sharing stories, swapping jokes, and exploring that spark we’re both missing.

I’m 38, on the East Coast, married and not looking to change anybody's situation, and very much the type who sends “good morning” and “good night” messages to keep the day feeling just a little warmer. At heart, I’m an optimist always searching for the bright side, but I’m also up for digging deeper when real-life stuff comes knocking. Playful banter is my jam, whether we’re chatting about random trivia, cringey holiday movies, or the last fantastic gem we found to eat at.

Physically, I’m 6’1 with a broad frame (read: strong shoulders, a bit of dad-bod comfort in the middle), a beard that’s seen just enough life to show character, and a few tattoos for good measure. I’m as game for nerdy pursuits (board games, bingeable TV, gaming nights) as I am for athletic ones (ranging from enjoying some rec leagues to watching a game on TV).

I’m looking for someone to laugh with, confide in, and maybe let the conversation roll late into the night. Let’s ditch the superficial “Hey, how’s it going?” vibes and dive into things that make us both smile (maybe even blush a little). If that sounds like your idea of a holiday treat, feel free to reach out and share something fun about yourself (latest obsession, weird but irresistible holiday tradition, or anything else you’re excited about).

Who knows, maybe we’ll help each other end this year on a high note and set the tone for a pretty awesome start to the next one.