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Do you remember what it feels like to be reminded that you’re desired? That you are desirable? I don’t, either, but I’m hoping we can change that together.
I’m 41, with 2 elementary-aged kids. They’re the best. I’m in the central time zone, if that sort of thing is important to you. I’ve been married for most of my adult life. It’s not all bad, in fact there is a lot of good, but I’ve had a deadish to fully dead bedroom for almost 10 years.
My life has been massively complicated over the last couple of years by a complex chronic illness. Most of my hobbies involved active, outdoor pursuits, but I can’t do those anymore, so I’m working on finding new ones. It’s an ongoing process, but I could desperately use some excitement in my life.
My affliction is such that I still look “fine.” I used to be extremely fit, and I’ve lost some muscle, but I’m still slim. I think I’m reasonably attractive. I know that I’m desirable, but it never hurts to be reminded by someone else, you know?
I’m looking for friendship, above all. I have varied interests and I’m a good conversationalist. I want to find someone who is willing to put some wit and effort into a conversation. Someone else who feels lonely despite being surrounded by people they love.
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