My post from yesterday was removed by moderators. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm sorry if I sounded phony. That's ironic considering I'm looking for a genuine man. And THEN I tried to make a new post this morning and it was taken down for trying to flood the sub 😂 This is not meant to be. Prove me wrong, please 🥹😁

Ok, back to it then. 🤞🏼🥳

Brass tacks and desired commonality:

♥ My age is my preference. I need the peace of that age bracket, I'm sorry if you think otherwise, it is a me thing.

♥ We reside in an availability friendly zone. I go to bed pretty early for middle aged adult 😆. If you're in bed by 9 est, I'll be sad without you for evening chat. You can see why across the pond just won't do.

♥ We are long-term minded. We want this but we won't settle for mediocre company. We're not THAT lonely. We got flavah and we want flavah. 🫚🌶️

♥ We are generally happy in life and have a positive outlook. We ain't no Karen and Chad. Most certainly not without challenges, we experience frustrations, hardship and heart aches, we're human.

♥ We take care of ourselves and our family. We're decent, law abiding folks who just happen to be slightly nuts.

❤️ "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". I don't need you to entertain me all day every day, but I do hope you're down for some good and solid chats 😃

♥Bonding is a major factor in attraction, so it could take a hot minute for us to arrive at heart eye emoji status. What's most important is that easy feeling of enjoying one another's company. I can't make any promises of where that might lead, but, would it be so terrible that we might end up as just friends? My point being, that for me this is not sexually charged, if that is your need I respect that and I am not a good candidate for you. I want to be fair in addressing that aspect so that you can better determine whether to reply or not. You may never know I'm a flirt, it takes the right man with the right sass to pull that. I want to flirt! But it's not for just any ol' guy.

~My marriage is fitting for our circumstances and I'm staying for all the right reasons. Your marriage is between you and your wife, I respect her position.

I hope this is a better post. It's hard to get it dialed in to attract a good match.

Thank you for reading.

🤞🏼🤩