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Aren’t you tired too?
Tired of scrolling through post after post of ads where we are all trying our best to make ourselves sound desirable and a good fit for other people?
Talk for a few days, weeding out those you’re not interested in, then slowly and mutually interest with one person you did choose because life got in the way.
We will not be perfect for each other. There will be some friction in some area and we won’t be able to fill all each others needs, because the internet can’t provide someone to hold you on nights where you need a head to cry on.
But it might be able to give us some of what we need.
I’m 34. My life is pretty alright. Most people from the outside likely think it’s great. My marriage is ok. We don’t hate each other. But I miss intimacy. Not the naked wrapped in each others arms all weekend because our hormones can’t be controlled kind.
The talking for long hours and being so wrapped up in each others “stuff” kind. The kind that makes you smile when your phone dings and refuse to go to bed at night because you’re not done with the other person yet. The kind that makes you giddy and excited, and feel like the butterflies are having a party in your chest.
I miss it. I want more than a roommate. I want intimacy.
Im a husband and a dad. I have the little ones. Ages 8,6, and 2.
Im traditionally attractive with all my hair. Im fit.
And I’m just at a loss here. I feel like I’m throwing a pebble into the ocean and hoping to catch a trophy fish with it. I keep reeling it back in empty handed.
Im rambling. And if you made it this far, I guess you should just message me?
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