Let’s face it...life is a whirlwind. Between responsibilities, deadlines, and everything else pulling at our attention, it’s easy to feel like something’s missing. I’m hoping to find someone who brings that extra bit of excitement to each day. A mix of genuine conversation, playful back-and-forth, and that unspoken spark that makes us both smile at our screens.

I’m 38, on the East Coast (EST), and married. I’m not looking to rock anyone’s boat, but I would love to find a deeper connection. I am someone who craves meaningful chats sprinkled with flirtation and a dash of mischief. Physically, I’m 6’1 with broad shoulders, muscular arms, and a comfortably solid “dad-bod” torso. My hair’s reddish brown with hints of grey in the beard, hazel eyes that can’t decide on a color, and a few tattoos that stay hidden at the office. My friends say I give the best hugs, and I’ll gladly own that title.

When I’m not working or catching up on life, I like to keep things interesting. From board games to rec league volleyball, exploring new restaurants, or being up on the rail at a rock or metal concert I’m always up for a good time. I balance the nerdy stuff (video games, binge watching shows like Below Deck or The Circle) with more active pursuits (sports, exploring the town for something new to experience, or just people watching somewhere fun). Throw in the occasional horror movie, a passion for live music festivals, and maybe a Broadway show or two, and you’ve got a sense of my vibe.

What am I hoping to find? Someone who’s just as excited to share a random nonsense from the day as they are to let the conversation wander into deeper territory. Someone who wants to swap good morning messages, toss around playful sass, and dive into each other’s worlds a bit more every day. A friend first, partner in mischief second, someone I can talk to about our best moments and our rough ones, all while feeling that low key (or maybe not so low key) buzz of attraction we can’t quite ignore.

If you’re looking for that easy, enjoyable connection (one where laughter and empathy go hand in hand) drop me a line. I’d love to hear about the last thing that made you laugh so hard you cried, or even the strangest food craving you’ve ever had. Let’s see if our late night chats and everyday musings spark something worth staying up for.