I am still looking for my long term partner here. It seems like everything has just grown so stale in my marriage and I'm tired of being the only one in pursuit. You know the feeling when your truly connect with someone - how powerful that is? We're all after that feeling. I haven't given up on finding it.

I am hoping to find someone in a similar situation to dive deeper with. Playful banter, flirting, venting, laughing, geeking out together, everything! Let's just be our authentic selves, let it build with time, and see what comes. I hope to find a long term partner here to brighten each other's days and have some heartfelt fun. I'm not a 9-5er. Life gets busy but I will gladly message throughout the day. I want us both to feel excited seeing the notifications come through :)

Looking for online only for now, but I can't rule out the possibility of something else down the road. When the chemistry hits, it's real.

I am 5'10", lean but not ripped, brown hair and eyes. I am open to sharing pics early to establish attraction. I absolutely want the spice, but an emotional connection is always most important. I'm also a father and pretty involved in my kids lives. It's a plus if you're a mom who understands what that's like.

EST but open to any location

If you're in a similar situation, send me a message!

Let's chat about...

Music - tell me your favorite genre, I'll tell you my favorite artist in that genre.

Cooking/baking - what is the last recipe you made that you found really creative/challenging/fun?

Sports - whats your favorite college football (or NFL) team?

Travel - what is the most special place you have ever visited, or what places are in your bucket list?

Reading - what are you engrossed in right now? Who is your favorite author?

Wildcard for bonus points - tell me about a personal hobby or interest! I really enjoy listening to what you are passionate about, no matter the subject.