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Married 44 [M4F] Mormon in Georgia -The Sex Drive Gap is Real
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MysteryOtter80 is a male looking for a female in Georgia, US
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Greetings! As the post title indicates,, I'm a married 44M living in Georgia and a member of what many refer to as the Mormon Church. As some of you may know, the church is pretty conservative when it comes to sex. No masturbation (I fail at that one), no pornography (I love porn), only sex with spouse allowed (have followed that in terms of irl, but I'm on OA so you can probably guess I haven't been faithful virtually), etc. My wife is a good Mormon and thus very conservative in the bedroom. She doesn't want to introduce toys and isn't into experimentation. Her sex drive is also very low. She can have sex and be good for a week or two or longer. Me, on the other hand, I could gladly have sex multiple times a day. My sex drive is extremely high and as soon as I'm finished, I'm already looking forward to the next time. This large gap in sex drives leaves me feeling unfulfilled and unsatisfied a lot of the time. I need more. I need an outlet. I watch porn to help capture some of that excitement and arousal, but it only goes so far. I've found the biggest sparks of chemistry, lust, and arousal come when interacting with another human being. She doesn't want to, so that's where you come in.

Are you in a similar situation in your marriage? Do you crave sex but not get enough attention from your partner? (Man, I sound like late-night shopping ads - "Act now, but wait, there's more!") I'm seeking a lady that also has a high sex drive and wants to find an outlet for all that sexual energy. If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you and see if we're compatible. I'd love to chat, share our likes and dislikes, what makes us tick, exchange pics, and if we hit it off, see where our desires take us. I want to explore and learn what turns you on, turns you off, and drives you crazy.

I know up to this point I sound like a shallow, sex-crazed guy, and that part is certainly living inside me, but I'm also sweet, caring, and loving. I have a big heart and find that the strongest connections are formed when you really get to know one another on a personal level, and not just the sexual side.

I live in Southern Georgia, so it would be great if you're on the east coast, but I'm fine with any timezone as long as you have time to put in the effort needed to make this work. I know we both have lives and can't message all the time. But I promise to message as often as I can.

I'm a father of two kids, have a zoo at home with 5 cats, 4 dogs, and a bird. I'm 5'10" with grayish-brown hair and blue eyes. As a dad, I've earned my dad bod. I love video games, football, F1 Racing, Back to the Future, Star Wars, The Office, Parks & Rec, and aviation and space exploration.

I know this post will get a lot of negative heat for being sexually focused, but let's be honest - isn't that the root of what a lot of us are looking for here?

If you've read this far, thank you! I look forward to hearing from you. I'd love to get to know you and see if we feel a connection. I hope you're the one I've been looking for.

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