I suspect the day after Christmas will be slow here but thought I’d post since work is slow too. I’ve had great short term success before, but not recently in a way that has stuck. My availability extends well beyond the 9-5 and I’m seeking someone to talk to, bond with, laugh with, share with, and have fun with through the days and weekends…ideally for a longer term arrangement.

Me: - average height with an athletic build (lift weights, run, play sports) - White with no tattoos. Brown hair. Scruff. - I am a parent. - Very into sports, tech, politics…the usual “adult” things. - Been told I am attractive and while I am able to laugh at myself and enjoy self deprecating humor, I am confident in how I look. - Night owl with lots of time.

Seeking: - not looking to spouse bash but the general life complaints are fine and I’m happy to listen. - Age is just a number. In my single days I had a thing for the age gap (older than me), but these days I am open to most. I find that conversations die/ghost much quicker when the other party is younger but maybe you can prove me wrong. - would love to hear about your hobbies. I’m always looking for new interests. By no means do we need to be into the same things entirely or even at all so long as the conversation is good. - ultimately, I do want a conversation with spice at some point. I don’t want every conversation to be sexual…probably not even most (and it doesn’t have to be right away). But if you’re absolutely against any sexual conversation, pic exchange, etc. it probably will fizzle.

If we end up being local I’m not opposed to an eventual meet in the very distant future. Not my first priority though and not specifically what I’m seeking. 😊

Reddit to start, establish a base, trade a pic or three, then prefer telegram although other apps are an option. :) Physical attraction is as important as mental/conversational.