I love riding that balance between being soft yet firm, playfully degrading yet so damn supportive. Helping you be so good for me while your thoughts are so dark. I’m not here just for the sexual connection. I want to be each other’s best friend. The person you can come to when you need anything. I find a bit of D/s dynamics to really build that deeper connection I crave.

Anyone can say awful shit to tear you down, further and further with no plan to pick you up. It might feel good when you’re turned on in the moment but afterwards don’t you feel even more empty? That’s not me. I’m not cosplaying a role to make up for my lack of authority. I’m naturally dominant. I lead at home, I lead in my career, I push myself so hard yet I’ve found that I’m my best when I have someone to push harder to be the best form of themselves. If you need me to break you down I will. But I promise if I do I will build you back up piece by piece and you’ll feel so cared for every step of the way.

Physically I’m 6’4”, fit and athletic, big hands 👀, and bright blue piercing eyes. And, to top it all off (literally) I’ve got all my hair, plenty to dig your fingers into.

I don’t have a “type” but I love someone that loves to please, can talk back when warranted, and isn’t content living a mediocre life or settling. Im the type to share my life in pictures, videos, and voice notes or calls and would love someone that seeks the same. I am married and I don’t intend to leave. Judge me if you must, but life is too short to live it with voids needing filled. No judgement if you have a bf or husband. You’re always safe with me.

In my day to day I love to cook and bake, have a small jungle of houseplants, and travel will always be my favorite way to spend a free weekend. I get to travel a lot for work and it makes the possibility of meeting someday without too much stress a real possibility. There’s nothing that comes close to exploring a new place and finding all the little local haunts with someone you can’t keep your eyes and hands off.

Above all, memories mean the most to me. I’m a sentimental bitch. Let’s make some together. Come tell me what makes you, you, and let’s find out how well you fit with me.