This is long and I’m not sorry.

I am a loving husband and father who is not new to this. I’ve had great connections before, even long lasting ones, so maybe that’s how I’ve come to know/accept that it’s a journey, not a destination. I could tell you about how handsome I am (for better or worse, I have become aware of it🙄😂) just like every other guy here (or so they’ve been told, GMAFB). Oh, and we are all “fit” too! Well, same. Muscles and six pack that literally nobody here is asking for 😂 I guess I do it for me. Full head of hair, successful career, and I’m slightly above average height. I look considerably younger than I am…Yeah, yeah. So what else is good??

I consider myself an emotionally available person, an expressive texter, and I’m also available on many evenings and weekends. I travel pretty freely, should we eventually want to meet, so please be open to that. I value kindness, wit, fitness, punctuation, punctuality, punctiliousness (wait, what? 🤔) dry humor, smart humor, and dark humor. I’m not terribly interested in talking politics, but I do lean left. We used to talk here about knowing whether to use they’re, there, or their, but I’m going to switch it up and say that I know the difference between discrete and discreet, because I’ve been seeing that one a lot here lately 😂 I like to send and receive lots of pictures, video notes, voice calls, Spotify links, memes, etc. I’m a “words of affirmation” kind of guy, and I’m brave enough to tell ya if I’m not feeling it.

I love a woman who gives me a little pushback; who has claws but they aren’t always out. A woman who can be a little barbed at the right times but at also, when I am exhausted, overworked, overstimulated, behind on sleep, and hungry, someone who can show some affection and kindness and give me a place to unravel.

So let’s narrow it down a bit: I find I typically match best with younger women; let’s say late twenties to mid thirties? I also seem to match best with others who aren’t miserable in their marriage. Also, I vibe with a lot of people, but physical attraction is harder for me to find. If that resonates with you, maybe we’d be a good fit! I need a pretty face, and a figure that could be described as slim, fit, or athletic. I don’t feel like myself if I go 48 hours without seeing the inside of a gym, and maybe you’re the same. If you aren’t sure if you’re conventionally attractive, sorry, not the one. I know, I’m picky, and if you think it’s inconvenient, well, that makes two of us 😂 US Eastern and central time zones are preferred.

Tell me about you! ❤️