What if this Christmas wasn’t just another round of eggnog and reindeer sweaters? What if, hidden behind the festive cheer, there was an escape waiting for us. Something that doesn’t just warm you for the moment but ignites a fire that changes everything? I’m 32, 6’0”, 160 lbs, married, and living in snowy Wisconsin. I’m a husband (child-free) and doctor (Ph.D., not MD), but I can’t shake the truth in quiet moments: the marriage that is supposed to fulfill me...doesn’t.

If you’re reading this, maybe you feel it too. We go through the motions—smile for the holiday photos, exchange gifts, play our roles—but deep down, there’s a void. The love we give and receive feels more like a routine than a romance. And I can’t help but wonder: what if someone else could bring back the passion we thought we’d lost?

I have the antidote to this situation, though. Late-night messages that wrap around you like the perfect holiday drink: warm, sweet, with just the right kick to leave you breathless. Quiet escapes from the holiday chaos for moments so charged they make your heart race. A lingering glance across a crowded room, knowing no one else feels what we do. Or sneaking out into the snowy night, letting the crisp air heighten the thrill as our lips finally meet, stealing a moment that feels like it’s just ours.

This isn’t just about fleeting excitement. It’s about chasing what’s been missing. If we find that spark, that undeniable connection that sets our souls ablaze. maybe it means leaving behind what no longer serves us. Maybe it means starting over, together. Because we deserve more than “good enough.”

So, if you’re ready to stop pretending and start feeling let’s take that step. Life’s too short to let another season pass in autopilot. Are you ready to unwrap the best gift you’ll give yourself this year? Because I am. If you live in Wisconsin, Illinois, or Colorado, we can enjoy the gift in person. If not, we can exchange our gifts online until we can't help ourselves anymore.