I am a loving husband and father who needs something more. I am not new to this and I’ve had great connections before, even long lasting ones, so maybe that’s how I’ve come to know/accept that it’s a journey, not a destination. I could tell you about how handsome I am (for better or worse, I have become aware of it🙄) just like every other guy here. Oh and we are all “fit” too! 😂 Well, same. Abs and muscles. Full head of hair, successful career, and I’m slightly above average height. Yeah, yeah…so what else is good?? I consider myself an emotionally available person, an expressive texter, and I’m also available on many evenings and weekends! I travel pretty freely, should we eventually want to meet, so please be open to that. I value kindness, wit, fitness, punctuation, punctuality, punctiliousness (wait, what? 🤔) silly humor, smart humor, dry humor, and dark humor. I’m not terribly interested in talking politics, but I do lean left. I like to send and receive lots of pictures, video notes, voice calls, Spotify links, memes, etc. I’m a “words of affirmation” kind of guy, and I’m brave enough to tell ya if I’m not feeling it.

So let’s narrow it down a bit: I vibe with a lot of people, but physical attraction is harder for me to find. If that resonates with you, maybe we’d be a good fit. I need a pretty face, and a figure that could be described as slim, fit, athletic, or muscular. If you aren’t sure if you’re conventionally attractive, sorry, not the one. Eastern and central time zones are preferred. Available more than just business hours, and open to meeting IRL eventually.

Softer limits: I find I typically match best with younger women; let’s say late twenties to mid thirties? Older than that and the physical attraction isn’t as likely to be there; younger and we may not have much in common or compatible communication styles, but if you think you’re the exception either way, I’m open to it. I also seem to match best with others who aren’t miserable in their marriage.

What am I attracted to? Everyone likes intelligence, but what does that mean?? I really think that boils down to a shared sense of humor. Connecting the dots in a weird but clever way that they weren’t intended to be connected. Funny comes off as smart when the two people sharing the joke are evenly matched.

The right emotional connection. I love a woman who gives me a little pushback; has claws but they aren’t always out. A woman who can be a little barbed at the right times but at the same time, when I am exhausted, overworked, overstimulated, behind on sleep, and hungry, someone who can show some affection and kindness and give me a place to unravel.

This ended up being waaaay too long 💀 Tell me about you. ❤️