I have a generally great life but I miss the adventure of getting to know someone new. Maybe its the thrill of doing something I know I shouldn't be. Maybe its the dopamine hit of a mutual attraction with someone who just gets you. Finding an online someone to get excited about during is my primary aim here. If that leads to more than just a quirky conversation, I am there for that.

About me - Pretty stereotypical middle class dad from the suburbs. Spend a lot of time lost in my own thoughts but am fairly active. I am most comfortable outdoors or around a restaurant/pub table with friends. I workout and enjoy health and fitness. I look passably good in both my jeans and t-shirt and on the beach. I like to think that I am self aware and emotionally intelligent.

I am hoping that when we start chatting I find out that you enjoy (and can maintain) a flirty, witty chat, can go deep as well as shallow in conversation and you do not take offence too easily at my lack of tact. Ideally you would be a professional or be excited about your specific hobbies. You will enjoy an outdoors adventure as well as a drink in a pub garden as much as I do. Being interested in real people I have realistic expectations of body and beauty but prefer someone 'in shape'.

I am very curious and love hearing all about you and your life. small events during the day and big events that made you who you are. If we do get on we will spend hours exchanging messages while we learn about each other and then wonder what happened to the time. I am self-employed and with a fair amount of time flexibility. Although, between kids and work, I do tend to go from way chilled to frantically busy day to day.

Send me a chat and lets get to know each other!